The catch-22 of an anxious attachment

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The catch-22 of an anxious attachment

Have you ever hid your needs, your desires, or your personality because you're afraid you'll be too much for someone and push them away?  Or, on the other hand, have you ever felt like you're not good enough for someone?  I'm guessing that Love Connectors will relate to this dynamic in particular, although many of us have likely experienced this feeling in our relationships. 

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The 3 Levels Of Learning To Love Ourselves

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The 3 Levels Of Learning To Love Ourselves

If you are one of the many people who struggle with self-esteem and not feeling good enough for others, this article is for you. I’ve learned in my work as a therapist that there are three levels of healing that we must do in order to truly learn how to love and accept ourselves. 

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The Confusion Of The Love Paralyzer

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The Confusion Of The Love Paralyzer

If you are a Love Paralyzer, you may not understand why it feels so difficult to find love. And if you’ve ever knowingly or unknowingly dated a Love Paralyzer, you may feel incredibly confused by the swift pulling away that they can do in a developing relationship. 

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To Love Or Not To Be Loved...That Is The Question

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To Love Or Not To Be Loved...That Is The Question

If we are going to feel pain in love, or without love, then why not take a chance and muster through love?  We can live in a cave and fear love the rest of our lives. Here, we feel no love. 

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Do You Have Post Traumatic Dating Stress?

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Do You Have Post Traumatic Dating Stress?

Not to make light of real PTSD here...but many of us feel like we've been through some traumatic dating experiences that can leave us a little shell shocked. To know how to trust again, consider this. 

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Intimacy: NOT a four letter word

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Intimacy: NOT a four letter word

Intimacy. In-to-me-see. It can be daunting to open our hearts to a stranger as we grow into a relationship and allow our truth to rise to the surface. We risk rejection, but we risk it for the possibility that instead of rejection, we will be loved for who we are...Perfectly imperfect. 

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Top 5 Love Connector Dating Mistakes

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Top 5 Love Connector Dating Mistakes

Love Connectors have a strong need for intimacy, connection, and reassurance in a relationship. Their brains are wired to keep a partner close and they often find themselves pursuing partners who want more distance in their relationships, like the intimacy avoiding Love Resister. There are 5 common dating mistakes that Love Connectors make. Can you relate?

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THIS Is Why You Should Text Him or Her NOW.

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THIS Is Why You Should Text Him or Her NOW.

If you’re caught in the anxious trap of wondering if you should text someone, STOP now.

Here’s why: You have the answer.

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Are You A Shape Shifter?

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Are You A Shape Shifter?

Do you tend to lose your identity when you’re in a relationship? When we fall in love, its easy to lose who we are. This is especially true for those of you who are Love Connectors (who have an anxious attachment) or struggle with low self-esteem. 

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What's Your Love Style?

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What's Your Love Style?

Have you ever had the experience of being completely preoccupied with thoughts of a partner or date to the point that you can’t think about anything else? 

Do you ever feel panicked after a date, wondering if you’ll get a text? 

Do you sometimes pull away from a partner in dramatic ways (trying to make them jealous or chase after you) even though you secretly want them to chase you?

The answer could be in your Love Style.

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