The catch-22 of an anxious attachment

The catch-22 of an anxious attachment

Have you ever hid your needs, your desires, or your personality because you're afraid you'll be too much for someone and push them away?  Or, on the other hand, have you ever felt like you're not good enough for someone?  I'm guessing that Love Connectors will relate to this dynamic in particular, although many of us have likely experienced this feeling in our relationships. 

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Namaste Dating

Namaste Dating

Imagine my fantasy with me for a minute…I like to call it namaste dating.

“Namaste” simply translates into this: the divine in me honors the divine in you.

Wouldn’t dating be easier if we just focused on looking deep into each other’s souls and greeted each other out of pure connection, truth, and curiosity? Wouldn’t it be easier if we honored the divine in each other?

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Dance With Fear

Dance With Fear

Making yourself vulnerable with a complete stranger has got to be one of the craziest things we do as humans. Yet we do it because it has the possibility of leading us into a loving relationship (and most of us want that more than anything). The fear created in dating or a new relationship can play out in many ways. We may avoid, overcompensate, ignore, or be ruled by it. Resisting fear in any of these ways only creates more fear and anxiety.  The key to overcoming fear is to dance with it. Invite it in, make friends, stop resisting. 

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This Mindset Shift Will Bring You Love

This Mindset Shift Will Bring You Love

Our modern, online dating world seems to be a a virtual buffet of choice and possibility. We click through profiles, swipe through our phones, and we’re presented with hundreds of potential dates at any given moment. The dating world seems ripe with opportunity on the surface, but deep down inside, you’re wondering if this abundance of love is for everyone but you.  

Making this shift in your mindset is crucial to your dating success.

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Why I Couldn't Find The ONE

Why I Couldn't Find The ONE

If you're wondering why you haven't found the ONE yet, it might be time to take a look within. We are mirrors, and the Universe has a way of reflecting back to us exactly what's going on inside. Here's my story about how I was preventing the One from finding me. 

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Why Giving Up On Finding Love Is The Worst Decision You Can Make

Why Giving Up On Finding Love Is The Worst Decision You Can Make

For those of you who are done with dating, listen up. Dating can be hard. If we were meant to be living alone in isolation for the rest of our lives, the dating industry wouldn’t be making billions of dollars on people who are searching for love. So let’s admit it.

We want love. We need love. 

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How to Stop Hiding and Get Real.

How to Stop Hiding and Get Real.

There seems to be an instinct to go deeper, and to look within ourselves, and to look deeper within each other. All of us are aching to be seen, yet many of us are terrified of being seen because we fear judgment, exposure, and vulnerability. I call bullshit on this. How about you? It's time to get real and stop hiding. 

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The CRUCIAL Dating Mindset You Must Have

The CRUCIAL Dating Mindset You Must Have

Most people can’t stand the vulnerability of dating. Exposing who you are to complete strangers, with the hope or fear that someone will approve of you can be incredibly stressful, even for those with healthy self-esteem.  

The problem is that most people go through the dating process being guided by the underlying question of “will this person like, love, or accept me?”

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