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Warning: DO NOT work with me if you just want a dating coach. I don't work on the surface. I create deep, lasting change that will bring you extraordinary results in your love life. Its not for everyone. 

Its not uncommon to find advice on the internet that can be misleading when it comes to finding love.  This advice can range from saying the magic words to make every man or woman fall in love with you….or for telling you how to win back your ex who broke up with you. Or play games, like acting disinterested to get a man's attention.

Not me.  I can’t stomach advice that misleads people to find love through using inauthentic behavior. 

I also worry about dating advice that lacks solid experience or knowledge of the science and psychology behind what makes love blossom, or wilt.

Would you go to a dentist to a dentist to get your car fixed? Why put your love life at risk by seeking novice or unfounded advice?

I don’t believe that the reason you haven’t found your dream partner is because something is wrong with you, or that you’re doing it wrong. 

I don’t think you should dumb down or hide parts of you that you’re afraid won’t attract the right partner. 

So, like I said... DO NOT work with me if you want a dating coach. But, if you're interested in creating real, lasting change in yourself and your relationships, consider working with ME, Your Love Strategist. 

A Love Strategist helps you harness your beauty, inside and out, and helps you find the courage to express it without fear to every potential partner and person you meet.

A Love Strategist has a wealth of experience as a therapist, which is invaluable in helping you understand relationships. This is science. This is effective, research backed information to help you find and maintain healthy, compatible, lasting , and EXTRAORDINARY relationships. 

A Love Strategist knows attachment, the science of the brain, and the complexities of why we form bonds with partners who fear intimacy when we crave it… Or why you might freak out in sheer panic and anxiety when a partner hasn’t called you… Or why you push away every partner that has long term potential.

A Love Strategist helps people find blind spots that they didn’t even know existed that are blocking them from finding love.

Being a therapist for two decades before I was a Love Strategist helped me become an excellent detective of the human psyche and heart. 

A Love Strategist helps a woman understand things like why they always find themselves with men they end up resenting because he doesn’t wear the pants in the relationship. 

A Love Strategist helps men understand why women’s emotions scare you, yet you find yourself intrigued, comforted, and attracted to the feminine essence.

A Love Strategist helps you find the strategies and courage to show up as your authentic self in your relationships, so you can find true love.

A Love Strategist helps you extricate yourself from unhealthy relationships that no longer serve you. 

A Love Strategist helps you dance with the vulnerability of love, so you can figure out how to open and close your heart at just the right times. I can help you learn to breathe through the pain of heartache and get back up on your feet again, and again, and again. 

A Love Strategist believes in your worth, even when you don’t. I believe you’re enough. I believe you’re lovable. I believe you deserve love. And I will help you uncover your fears about believing the same, so that you can get on the right path to finding love with a partner who believes this too.

So, if you want to learn more about what I do, and how you can turn your dates and heartaches into healthy, committed, fulfilling relationships, let’s talk.  

I offer a FREE 30 minute LOVE BREAKTHROUGH session to help you breakthrough the patterns that are keeping you from finding the love you desire.